Random Goober thoughts
Published on April 14, 2004 By Michemily In Personal Relationships
I broke up with Matt on Monday. It was so hard to do. I love him so much, and don't ever want to lose him, but I just know that it's not right for now! He cried on my shoulder, and we hugged for about an hour and he kept asking me why, but I have no better reason to tell him than what I mentioned previously. I'm glad he did cry, though, because it shows me that he cares as much as I do. He's got so many great things about him, and I just hope that things work out. He wants to be friends still, but I told him that would be too hard, just like last time when we immediately hooked up again. But, alas, we have already hung out many times, and it's been okay. We've been a lot better this time, not even giving in to holding hands! It's great to at least have him as a best friend for now!
Comments
on Apr 14, 2004
Well, I don't know enough about the situation to spew advice at you....but do listen to this.

If you love this boy, be it as a friend or a lover, don't let him go. Ever. Love is rare...hang onto it...or you'll be sorry.

And from what you wrote, he sure does love you.

Trinitie
on Apr 14, 2004
He does love you! Tremendously!!! Trinitie has a point. I'm sure he is really happy to still be around you, that's probably what he wants more than anything. Good luck and be cool!!!
on Apr 15, 2004
I'm glad he did cry, though, because it shows me that he cares as much as I do.


spoken like a woman with an ice cold heart... "I'm glad he cried, because it shows that he cares... but i'm still gonna dump his ass"

sounds to me like you're going cruisin' in that new Jetta of yours and you don't want him weighing you down while you go looking for some other hot boys to hang with... let us know when you realize that the grass wasn't greener after all... You'll be lucky if the boy is still waiting for you when you get back...
on May 06, 2004
MJ that was kinda harsh - Matt sounds like a nice guy but believe when I say I think I know where she's coming from - if it's a Faith thing. No for now isn't always no forever but you should think of it as No forever so you don't get so hung up about it - Goodluck Michelle